SOMETIMES IT’S GOOD TO JUST LET GO

Life doesn’t follow the path you direct it to. Sometimes certain things are beyond your control. No amount of effort can change what future holds for you. And well what can be called as the biggest return out of it all, is the experience you gain and how that experience shapes you as a person.

That moment when you know history is repeating itself and your life is going on the same track on which it once was. It wasn’t a specific day or any moment but it was a long span of time before I realized where it was all leading to.

So my life was once again in the same phase…a lot of realizations happened before I choose to just let go.  Some people need to know that I did all I could but I will no longer be their muse. My nice version wasn’t because I wanted anything in return but because that’s how I am. But what you failed to realize all throughout that I can be as indifferent as caring I was. 

Yes I may not be funny to you anymore or my stories may now sound boring to you…but I am pretty sure I am better off the way I am. I haven’t changed my ways for anyone ever but I amended for I thought it was for good. Well I am back to my own self now and it feels GREAT! I have kind of realized you are an error I had once made and yet I was foolish enough to make it all over again. Thank god I realized before I was in it far too deep. 

I know nothing will change for you even if I leave because the way you are, you will soon have a new toy to play with but I pity the new one now. I wish this reaches to them before you do.

Yes there will be a space for now I have chucked you out, but an empty space is better than having you. 

Apart from the aforementioned, it was a pleasure meeting you as you are on my top list of errors made in life. 

I will still be the same me but you should know once I move forward I never ever look back. 

P.s. (Readers) - This isn’t a write up after break up. It is for a friend who recently lost its importance and I know this is the best way to make them realize.

(Admin) – Please post it. For I know you are the best medium. Post this as well, don’t make any changes. And I love you for doing this for me.

ADMIN – As requested by a friend. But trust me it does looks like break up post :) 

Dosti mei kya kya krna padta h..:P

Until a next and better post…value friendship :)

Traveling alone is fun

There are numerous perks of traveling alone. While to some the idea may sound boring, let me tell you it certainly is an experience of a lifetime.

Traveling alone ain't a easy task but once you opt for it, you get a lot more out of it than you can ever imagine.

For any general trip with a couple of people, it is said 'More than the destination the journey with them matters'. Well, it is the biggest perk of traveling alone 'The journey'. While in a group one spends most part of their journey chatting and playing, what you miss onto is the minute details of your trip - the natural beauty around, the cities, the people and the food.


           

 Unplanned destinations, new friends on the journey and the quest for exploration can all be satisfied with just one trip. The pleasure of traveling clueless at a new place or a new city is worth having because no matter what; you land up where you are supposed to be.

Try and wander in an ancient fort hearing the courageous tales that those old yet strong walls have to offer. For once get off you gadget and hear those folk songs or go for that famous show that the local theater calls for.
Sometimes the local spice of the place with a sip of tea in the company of strangers (or potential new friends) is way more fulfilling than those packaged products which are generally your tea time buddies.



The experience you gather off a trip like this gives you a sense of contentment that stays with you forever.

After all it isn't a lone journey,  it is a journey you take with and for your own self :)

It's all about shares

So well just like any other day we were texting when our discussion went like this…
Le me – ‘Yaar usse bhi experience nai and hume bhi nai toh ho lia humara kaam’
Le her  - ‘Mujhe toh khud pe self confidence h’
Le me – ‘@_@   Chalo let me now move from ‘sesso’ to shares, even though both have quite a numerous similarities, I am quite sure I won’t be asked about the former in the paper.’
Le her – ‘Tell me one similarity apart from that [A] that you do not have experience of either or [B] that you don’t like either.’
Le me - ‘There are many similarities, will tell you someday..’
Le her  - ‘Article likh de..’

Well I gave you a trailer that day; here goes the remaining bit as requested ….

Disclaimer: The following content is for grown up audiences the writer should not be held responsible in any way regarding any reality checks so caused. :]

“Sesso and the shares”
- The first and most important similarity, we all want it and yet are skeptical about having it.
- It is quite easily available in the market with a variety of options ;]
- And while you may get excited from the outer benefits, you better be careful and follow necessary precautions. [In either case you wouldn’t want to face future unavoidable consequences]
- Investment should be given due thought. As all shares give unexpected benefit during initial phase before giving negative returns.
- As easy as it seems both need a little planning and prior knowledge…after all who wants to fall in wrong hole at first ;]
- It’s an addicting habit; once you have a taste of it you would just crave for more of it.
- There a variety of ways to perform it.
- In modern developing world, both can be done anywhere, at anytime and with anyone.
- One of the peculiar features of Indian shares is that once u avail them you reap its fruit [sour or sweet] for way too long…generally you have to be content with one investment only.
- While the society shuns the idea, young blood loves investing secretly.
- There a no. of precautions available yet none gives 100% security. [As I said negative consequences]
- A lot of resource material is available online to refer to and well the key to better experience is to move in synchronization with the market flow.
- And now the most important one, you just get better with experience;]

While I can go on and on, I now presume you have got the idea how to draw a parallel between the two. Hope you liked it ;]

Stay tuned for more gyan ;)